Michael Göpfert obituary

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My husband, Michael Göpfert, who has died of cancer aged 77, was a consultant psychotherapist and child psychiatrist in Merseyside.In 1985 he set up a new psychotherapy service at the Royal Liverpool hospital, with integration at its heart, ensuring that therapists from different disciplines each had some training in another therapeutic method.Michael saw that separating adult and child services when a parent had a severe mental illness meant that the effect on the children was often missed.He was an early proponent of this neglected area and edited the book Parental Psychiatric Disorder (1996).He worked closely with Barnardo’s Young Carers and its Keeping the Family in Mind service in Liverpool, now well established but innovative when it began.

Michael also trained medical students in communication skills, supervised many psychiatric trainees and brought cognitive analytic therapy training to Merseyside.He was always prepared to take on difficult issues that others avoided.Michael was born in Munich in the postwar years, the youngest of the four sons of Herbert Göpfert, a publisher, and his wife, Hildegard (nee Klaiber).As a teenager, he lived in the Bavarian Alps where he felt at home, climbing, walking, swimming, and playing the piano and the harpsichord.He wanted to be a pianist, but when he was 20, his mother died suddenly and he lost direction.

He went on to study nursing, then medicine, and became part of the political youth movement confronting the legacy of nazism.Alienated by the oppressive culture in Germany and attracted by the NHS and new developments in community psychiatry, in 1978 he moved to London for training.He completed child psychiatry training in Toronto, where he also discovered the Canadian wilderness, kayaking and First Nations culture.He found that most adult psychiatrists did not even know if their patients had children, a finding repeated when he returned to the UK, and this sparked his interest in parental mental illness.He took up the post in Liverpool and made Merseyside his home, while also studying for a master’s in family therapy at the Tavistock Institute in London.

Michael had grown up not knowing anyone Jewish and with the Holocaust never talked about.He lived with the huge guilt that many young Germans felt at that time.At the Tavistock he met me, a child of German Jewish political refugees.We both came to understand more the position of the “other” and how victim and perpetrator roles could alternate.We married in 1989, and I moved to Merseyside to work as a child psychiatrist.

There our three children were born,Michael loved music, cycling, foraging and baking – after retirement in 2010 he set up a community bakery,He restored and developed all our family homes,In recent years we lived between Liverpool and north Wales; in Wales, Michael rediscovered some of what he had missed from Bavaria, and there, as a legacy project, he planted a field of truffle trees,Michael is survived by his children, Anya, Max and Leo, his grandchildren, Aria and Luca, his brothers Dieter and Christian, and me.

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There’s a lot more to lettuce than salad | Kitchen aide

My garden has produced an abundance of lettuce (mainly butter lettuce) this year but there’s a limit to how much salad I can eat. What else can I use them for? Julian, by email“Start thinking of lettuce, and especially butter lettuce, as bread or a taco shell,” says Jesse Jenkins, author of Cooking with Vegetables, and happily this is a “highly adaptable” strategy, too. Sure, you could pile in grilled spicy pork belly and herbs, but this dinner fix also works well “with everything a big green salad does: a piece of nicely grilled protein, some sauce, a few pickled crunchy things, all wrapped in a big, beautiful green leaf”. But why stop there? “I also like to use butter lettuce to wrap cheese toasties,” Jenkins says. “It catches all the fatty goodness and acts as a barrier between the crunchy bread and the roof of your mouth

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José Pizarro’s recipe for sweetcorn, chorizo and piquillo pepper fritters

It’s easy to forget that ingredients such as corn, peppers and even the pimentón in our chorizo all came from the Americas in the 15th century. Many of them first took root in Europe in Extremadura, where I’m from. In La Vera, peppers were smoked and ground into what became pimentón de la Vera and is now part of our food culture. These fritters, which are simple, quick and full of flavour, bring together all these ingredients with long journeys behind them and a solid place in the modern Spanish kitchen.Prep 10 min Cook 30 min Makes About 12125g cured chorizo, skinned and finely diced75g jarred piquillo peppers, drained and finely chopped2 corn cobs, kernels shaved off with a big sharp knife125g plain flour 1 tsp baking powder Sea salt and black pepper 2 large eggs, beaten 160ml whole milk Olive oil, for fryingPut the chorizo, peppers and corn in a large bowl, add the flour and baking powder, and toss to coat

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‘They’re not chic!’ How did BuzzBallz become the undisputed drink of the summer?

Reef, Hooch and Bacardi Breezers are back in favour with gen Z – and BuzzBallz are the biggest hit of all. Why are they the essential alcopop at this year’s picnics, parties and festivals?When Merrilee Kick invented BuzzBallz in 2009, she was a 47-year-old teacher from Texas who needed to make some money fast. “I was about to get a divorce and was terrified of becoming homeless,” she says. “I was a high-school teacher not making enough money to survive, much less put two sons through college.” She had the opportunity to do an MBA through a teacher-enrichment programme, and came up with the idea for BuzzBallz one hot afternoon while marking homework

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Rukmini Iyer’s quick and easy recipe for charred corn salad with halloumi, broccoli and black beans | Quick and easy

This is my version of a chopped salad, and I love the textural contrast of the crisp broccoli against the soft black beans and squeaky halloumi. The lime-and-spring-onion dressing makes everything sing, while the slightly bitter note of the charred corn keeps things interesting. A filling rainbow salad for warm days.Prep 15 min Cook 15 min Serves 2-32 tbsp olive oil300g tin sweetcorn, drained225g halloumi, cut into ½cm slices200g Tenderstem broccoli, cut into ½cm pieces400g tin black beans, drained and rinsedFinely grated zest and juice of 1 lime20ml extra-virgin olive oil1 tsp flaky sea salt 3 spring onions, trimmed and finely slicedPut a tablespoon of oil in a large, heavy-based saucepan on a high heat. When it’s almost smoking, add the sweetcorn (stand well back!), then fry, stirring occasionally, for five minutes, until charred all over (stand back when you stir, too, because it’s going to try to pop at you like popcorn)

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Mitch Tonks’ sardine recipes, both fresh and tinned

Sardines are one of our most underrated fish, even though UK stocks are healthy and the fishery in Cornwall is certified sustainable. They are caught by seine netting at dusk just a few miles from shore, and the way they are fished means they’re in perfect condition when landed. My favourite way of eating them is left whole, guts in and heads on, topped with a healthy sprinkling of coarse salt and then grilled – they’re wonderful eaten just with your hands or on bread, but today I offer up two alternatives ways with sardines.You will see these delicious cicchetti, or snack, in bars all over Venice, where they sit piled high on the counter, ready to be served with a glass of wine or on top of a slice of bread. They make a great starter or light supper, and it’s a very good way to preserve the fresh fish for a few days, because the flavour gets only better with time

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The power of pulses: 15 easy, delicious ways to eat more life-changing legumes

Want to consume more gut-friendly fibre, as well as minerals, vitamins and antioxidants? Like the idea of a more sustainable diet? Here is the answer - and baked beans are only the startWorried about rising food prices, your diet’s carbon footprint or whether you’re eating healthily enough? Believe it or not, there could be a magic bullet: pulses.According to a study by the University of Reading, published in the European Journal of Nutrition in March, adults who eat more pulses – dried beans, peas and lentils – have a higher intake of nutrients including fibre, folate and vitamins C and E; minerals such as iron, zinc and magnesium; and a lower intake of saturated fat and sugar. Similar results have been found in American, Australian and Canadian research.The UK study also found that eating pulses was associated with a more sustainable diet. In her book, Pulse: Modern Recipes with Beans, Peas & Lentils, Eleanor Maidment explains that growing pulses has a positive effect on the environment